Happy Quick Tips

Good Friday every one!!! So today, I have some good news...I'm working again!!! This is the best news, let me tell you why. I had a pink bill for my lights, pink bill for my water, a disconnection notice for my internet, and almost no groceries. I have a negative 534.13 in my account from paying all the bills, and no, I don't have a problem with sharing that with you guys. I was pretty bummed out, but lets face it, aren't we all bummed out when we have to pay bills? So with that being said, today I want to share my five quick tips that I always use when I need some happy to combat the angry/sad.

The first thing I normally do, is sit in self pity. That means I cry, go bitch mode...rip up junk mail...what ever the mood calls for at the moment. A lot of times, this is enough to kind of snap me back...like hey!!! We are way too cute for this!

Some things, are a bit more...emotional. Raging won't really help and I don't have anymore tears to cry. I'll be honest you guys, Danny, although is an extremely great man, gets me to this point. We have a lit of differences and we are two dominate personalites so we clash...over the dumb shit lol. It's never anything big, we normally agree on those things, but still a lot of times these arguments go on way longer, and he holds grudges like it's nobody's business. I tend to just let it go if it's not worth the effort. So this bums me out and I get depressed because...well I don't like when my Boobie is mad at me. For situations like this, I tend to use pen and paper. Here is where I'm a little different, sometimes, I can't think to write so I chicken scratch all over that poor paper. Like serious lines all over the place. I get creative and change colors and all that jazz. If I do happen to write something, a lot of times, I'll burn it. I'm emotional and a lot of times I write things I don't mean, so burning means I won't take a chance at hurting anyone should they run across my letter. This keeps me from doing this

RANDOM DANCING!!!!! I know I speak for all of us, dancing cures all. It even helps us burn those calories that we gained from all our emotional eating!

This guy is doing it right!

This guy..is also doing it right

Carlton ALWAYS does it right

Who knew Jeffery could do it right 

Aang...I love Avatar.

And good ole Will...one of the best shows of the 90's? HELLS YEAH!

Ok sorry about that dancing gif spam..but dancing is my favorite one. My next tip is the hardest one...just let it go. A lot of times, the things we worry about, just isn't worth it. Take my money issue for example...I have never cared about money, I'd work a farm for the rest of my life and live with no electricity. Bye bye internet. I was born with out money, when I die, the government will take all my money...so why stress? I know we "need" money to "enjoy" life and "live"...but to cry about it...psh, I won't be in debt always and once I remember that...poof like magic, I was happy...gif spam alert(it's worth it)

Told ya it was worth it. :). The last tip I want to share with you is, get some nature. There is so much to be grateful for and we can realize that just by walking out side. Think about it, here on Earth, we have just enough gravity to keep us on the ground...poor aliens in space...they float and shit. Think about taking a doodie in space...it's gonna float up and touch your cheek meat...that's if you can even push it out!! Also we have flowers and you should take time to smell the concrete..or wait...roses...whatever, I hate roses and I'm afraid of bees soooo yeah. Past all that though, it really is beautiful outside and sometimes that can bring out the beautiful happy in us. No worries...I don't have and gifs for this one so you all are safe lol.


Do you guys want to add anything on here? Maybe you can show me how to get some new happy.

A late confession on a future Wednesday

I actually wrote this post last week but it was already 10 at night so I said eff it and scheduled it for today...which is weird to type because it's still this Wednesday...ummm okay. I'm ready for some some confessions!!! How about you guys? I missed so many confessions I'm going to burden you all with my crap...ready?

Confession 1- I get so jealous of the bloggers who say they have made blog friends. Like how does that happen? Do I just email some one I really want to talk to and strike up a conversation?? Hmmmm, I'm gonna bug Kat and send her emails and see if she wants to be friends...or maybe adopt me as a little sister lol (run Kat).

Confession 2- Every night I say "Yea I'm gonna get up early and have a productive day!!" Then when my alarm goes off, I say a lot of curse words and sleep till 12.

Confession 3- When my cats come in heat, I love them in a room by themselves at night time. I am the biggest animal lover you will find...however, I don't mind putting a horny cat in jail for my sleep #sorrynotsorry

Confession 4- I love Drea from Oh Dear Drea. I want to move to Florida just so I can stalk her and maybe one day eat her delicious food. I actually sent her an email thanking her for her inspiration and she emailed me back...I freaked out a little bit.
p.s. I know bloggers are people but I am always shocked when an established blog comments on my post or responds to one of my emails.

Confession 5- I just realized Florida= Flo Rida....does that music guy spell his name like that?? Meh...not important.

Confession 6- I read one of Jessie's fitness post (she is my secret friend and, we get coffee to catch up sometimes) and I worked out for 5 minutes then ate a cookie. The point is, she motivated me to get my ass off the couch and try...so in my eyes she is pretty inspiring.

Confession 7- I'm not as creepy as I sound in real life, we've only had mental coffee once lol.

Confession 8- I hate when people post pointless pity post on facebook. "My phone is so dry" "No one called me today" "I feel so ugly". Don't get me wrong, I don't have a problem with sad post every now and then...but people who are publicly sad everyday???? unfriend...now

There ya have it folks! Some one send me an email and be blog friends with me!! Also, I have my blog planner in full effect so hopefully, I will have a post every day for now on! SO what's hiding in you guys closet this week?

A week full of suprises!!!!

So I actually had post planned for this week but once again, I failed. Oh well, I have some good reasons and they are also pretty cute reasons too.

Okay, so where do I start?? Lets start with the doggy fur ball. SO you know how I told you guys that me and Danny recently celebrated our anniversary, well I thought we were only gonna go strawberry picking..and we did...that day. A few days after that, he got a call from a co worker letting him know that the puppy was ready. Now, he had been saying that he was gonna get me a puppy and I just didn't believe it. Well...in my face!

Next is the white fur ball, well it's all thanks to China, which is what I think I am calling the puppy. One night as we were doing our restroom duties...at an ungodly hour of 3 in the morning, I heard a little muuu muuu meuuu sound. I'm thinking to myself, hell nah, I'm going crazy. Going back to bed, I told Danny, there is a baby something in our shed. He of course, blew it off lol. The next day, I move some things around in the shed and sure enough, I found a skinny, flea infested kitten, alone in the shed. Now my first instinct was to leave it because the mom could have been close, but looking at the little baby, I could tell it had been abandoned. So I scoop it up, clean it and run to walmart for nursing equipment. Let me just say being a mom to animals is hard work. Every two hours I bottle feed the kitten, and take China out for potty time...thats even while I'm sleeping. Sounds fun right? Not really, but it's worth it. Sweetie bear has taken to the kitten, she helps me clean it, it's the cutest thing I ever seen. Yall...just pray for me, I don't know what sleep is any more!

5 Years Ago...

So this post is actually late...much like all my other post that I plan lol. Luckily I won a blog planner...thanks Jessica aka Duckie! It's the first time I ever won anything, so yea...I'm a little "turnt up" as the young kids say. Anyway back to the post. This past Friday (April 18th), me and Danny celebrated our Anniversary!! YAY! Now, I'll try not to make this a sappy love story, but I do want to tell you guys a little bit about our journey.

We met in a garage, and if you let him tell it, he will say I tripped when I saw him...I don't remember that but whatever. I didn't like him, sure he was cute, but aren't all the player types? The only reason why I entertained him was because of a chick we knew in high school. Word around town was she could "take" him form me, which was pretty funny since I wasn't really interested in the first place. Well, I accepted the challenge and to my surprise, it was more to the man than just a pretty face. Five years later, after lies. graduation, insecurity trips, and all kinds of other hell, here we are. It has been one of the most gratifying experiences to love some one through their flaws and watch them grow.

So we went to a strawberry farm! I was so excited, I never picked strawberries at a farm before so I was like a little kid! We had a couple of friends with us and let me just say, I had tons of fun. I actually went into the fields and broke down crying because of the bees. I was not ready for the bees lol. I got over it eventually. We had some really good bar b que and an awesome strawberry roll. Then later on once we were back at the house, I got drunk and had an awesome night lol. I got him a target for his bow and arrow, by the time he was using it, I was too far gone to take pictures. Thanks coffee flavored patron!

When Bordem Strikes

 So, what do you get when you give a sledge hammer and a broken vacuum to two angry men? A poor poor super broken vacuum. May it rest in tiny pieces.

I got hit with a piece of that damn vacuum too!

 In other news, sometimes when I get sick of sitting at home, I go to work with Danny and listen to him help the whinny cry baby kids at Toys R Us...now I'm not saying that all the kids are like that...but 98% are. Anyways...this is what I do...

Bug antennas!

I played with this thing for like 3 hours lol

Sometimes my life is pretty sad. Good thing I am pretty easily entertained.

After my break down...

Alright so I had a pretty crappy week last week, if you want to hear me gripe and groan check here. So after all that, I put my big girl panties on and cleaned my damn room, and it's true what they say about cleaning the clutter clears the clutter in your mind. I felt a lot better...so much better, mother nature decided to let me know "hey you aren't pregnant! Oh, and your uterus hates you!"...don't you just love cramps?

Who knew there was a floor under there!!

Ignore my shoes...and my messed up bed lol

Dear Danny, put your damn pants up!!!

I'm pretty sad I missed hump day confessions, but I figure next week you guys will love all my little secrets...trust me, I have a lot of them to tell you. You know what I want to know? How do you guys all make blogger friends? Like, do you just randomly send a message like "Hey, I love you and sense I read your blog, we are like besties! Let's email all the time!!" I just want to send every one stalker messages like "0.0 love me cuz I love you" sigh....making friends is so hard.

On another note, my mother in law's (we rent the house from her) roses..I think they are roses..and they are blooming and I want to kill them soo bad. I hate roses or what ever these plants are! Granted, they do look very pretty...too bad I don't care.

One of those days

I woke up today, not in the worse mood, but maybe not happy...I don't know what's wrong. I have so much stuff on my mind. Things I want to get up and do. It's like, every time I plan something, I'm so far away from the out come. I want to finish my back yard, I can't go any further because we need string to tie of the branches that we trimmed. I want another raised bed, no money for that. I want my living room to be full of natural light...it's full of natural dark. Why is it, I have so many plans, but I'm held back by all these limitations? I'm starting to sleep so much through out the days. I don't have drive to get up and do anything.


I look at some of my favorite blogs, and I'm so damn jealous! I know we have all had a share of troubles...it seems I'm just starting now. I was blessed, 21 I'm in my own place. It's not what I thought. Me and Danny argue over the dumbest stuff. "Why did you leave that there??" "I don't want the doorbell any more". I had some crazy idea that when I moved out, my house would be an empty canvas, waiting for us to paint our life in. Instead, I got a house full of other people's stuff, a brother in law that isn't worth 2 dollars, and problem after problem after problem. I read you guys story and I think, how did you make it? How did you continue through all the small dumb shit? Every day it's a struggle for me to stay happy all day. I'm so angry about it all. I'm happy to not have to worry about buying couches, but if these couches mean I have to continue to be clutter with all your other junk, please just come get it! Take it all! I'd rather be in an empty house than a house full of stuff that's stopping me from adding my love...I guess I really am ungrateful.